David M. Lopilato – 63, of North Reading, died unexpectedly on Monday, August 1, 2022.
Born in East Boston, MA on July 9, 1959. He was the son of the late Michael and Helen (Waydaka) Lopilato. David was a graduate of North Reading High School, Class of 1977 and studied engineering at the University of Lowell.
David was self-employed as an IT Professional over his forty-year career, where he led design and technology teams for some of the largest and well known financial and health institutions.
He was known to many and a friend to all, he loved people and loved to engage them in conversation. A funny, charming and gregarious man who was quick with a joke or a goofy expression. He loved to make people laugh or astound friends with his magic tricks. David was a natural athlete who was an avid and exceptional skier, golfer and race car driver. Above all, he was a loving dad who never tired of watching, supporting, bragging over and loving his two children. David was never happier than he was when coaching his kids on the ice and the field, watching his son play hockey and his daughter dance on stage.
Family members include his wife Michelle (Mounsey) Lopilato; his son Nicholas “Cole” Lopilato; his daughter Alexandra “Lexi” Lopilato; his brothers Michael and Mark Lopilato and his aunt Frankie Kamlot of Lynnfield.
His visitation will be held on Sunday, August 7 from 4 to 7 PM at the Croswell Funeral Home, 19 Bow Street, North Reading. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Theresa’s Church, 63 Winter Street, North Reading on Monday, August 8 at 1030 AM. Everyone is asked to go directly to the church. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in his memory to the charity of one’s choice. www.croswellfuneralhome.com
Oh lifelong friend and big brother, you left us all too soon! So many amazing times together starting way back at the beginning at the Batch and throughout our adult life! I’m blessed to call you friend and the world will not be the same without your smile and laughter! Enjoy the 19th hole! Forever in my heart Davey! RIP!
We are so sorry to hear of David’s passing. He was such a nice and kind person.
Prayers to the Lopilato family.
The Gerardi Family
Omg – big brother- one of the loves of my killington family life- so many laughs, good talks, great times
Gone to soon – I honestly thought we would have the opportunity to meet up and share special times again. My love to Michelle and family – praying for you and sending love
Deb S. I will remember David as joyous, thoughtful, always smiling – with a big, warm embrace. So sad to lose him; he was a very special friend. Heaven has gained angel, and there, his light will continue to shine.
So sad Dave! You will be truly missed by many. Rest in peace old friend!
Friends since childhood… fun at Arlington Pond in 60’s & 70’s at his Grandparents cottage. Shocking is the word — glad we met,stayed in touch. Deepest condolences to the family. RIP my friend.
Dave always greeted me with that huge smile and a big warm hug. He was always happy! Loved to reminisce about our school days and share stories of his family with such great pride. My most sincere condolences to his family. Until we meet again. . . . Rest in peace Dave!
My sincerest condolences to the Lopilato family, Dave and I were friends and teammates growing up in North Reading. May you rest in peace!
Michelle, Cole and Lexi,
Dave was always such a positive presence and made a big impact on all of us. We enjoyed talking hockey with him, and his encouragement made the people around him want to be better.
You are all in our thoughts.
Our sincerest condolences,
Paul, Lisa, Mia and Michael Pittore
To the Lopilato immediate family, Michelle, Cole , Lexi and brothers my sincerest condolences. Dave a great friend, and someone I will miss immensely. I know he loved people, but none as much as you.
Michelle, Cole, and Lexi,
We are wrapping you in prayers of strength, comfort, and peace as you navigate through this incredibly challenging time. Words can never take the pain away, but hopefully you have some comfort knowing so many people are thinking of you.
Much love,
T.J., Amanda, Kai, Blake, and Cori McMeniman
To family and friends. I never met David in person, but had the pleasure of working with him for many years at PCG. I am truly sorry for your loss. May his big heart and big love hold you and bring you peace.
I am lost for words…. He welcomed an outsider into the hockey community and never looked back. He helped me at one of the most difficult times in my life…. We shared so may laughs….. God bless your sole Dave…. Thanks for your friendship and guidance….. make God watch over and bless Lexi, Cole and Michelle.
Luv U,
Dusty Dumbass….
Michelle as an emergency responder nothing is more riveting than coming to a scene and finding out it is a boyhood pal from little league, Boy Scouts, the North Reading sports system to our apartments on the same floor at Colonial Point. My deepest sympathies to you and your family I will never forget Dave
Dave was a great guy! We met him through hockey as our boys played against each other for years. His love for his kids was evident in everything he did and said. Martha and Steve Tatro
Dave, I miss you dearly. I thought I missed you when you moved to East Boston, and how many times I’ve taken rainchecks for lunch since…. I know you are in peace and smiling over all who loved you. I will always remember our times together, you were such an inspiration for me while building my company. Love ya buddy!
My Sincere Condolences To His Family And Friends R.I.P.
RIP Dave we will all miss you
It seemed like just yesterday that David was sitting on the back deck after Dad’s remembrance service, regaling us with the outrageous escapades of the young lads Class Of ’77 and in the next breath, how incredibly proud he was of Lexi’s beautiful dance and Cole’s incredible ice hockey finesse and skill. All the while reminding us of Dad and allowing our pain to lessen.
David was a sweet and kind soul.
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Thank you, Dave. Kathy Coleman